Thursday, June 30, 2011

Two Mistakes That Parents Often Commit When Hiring The Service Of A Personal Tutor

By Blaine Dur


Parents hire private instructors with the belief that they perform exactly the same job that school teachers do. While it is true that tutors and teachers follow the same mission statement in performing their jobs, their functions are not interchangeable.

First off, students with learning difficulties necessitate more individualized attention for them to discover learning methods that would work for them. A teacher does conduct intense, close scrutiny of individual students. However, this is done on an occasional basis. The curriculum for students in a classroom setting is designed for collective learning. Hence, students are given opportunities and enough time to meet learning challenges on their own.

However, not all students could cope to this teaching design. And that small percentage is none other than the students who need to spend time learning with a private teacher or tutor. Through one-on-one teaching approach, students are provided with sustained, personalized instruction because tutors have enough time observing students learning behavior. Indeed, tutors offer closer scrutiny of the student's learning performance so they can gather enough information about the student's learning difficulties.

Another mistake that parents often commit when hiring tutoring services is that, sometimes, they go overboard. There are parents who completely say their disappointment right before the child and the tutor. In instances like this, tutors should try his best to provide neutral responses so students will see that there are other people who are not yet giving up on them.

Tutors, however, should not baby their students. Tutors can demonstrate their authority without saying embarrassing words when the student shows no positive improvement in their performance. So when a student is not taking his homework seriously, a tutor can tell the student that the next meetings will be cancelled if he will not do his part in completing his homework.

The tutor has to say this directly to the student so the latter will realize that this issue is a matter between the two of them. For sure, the student will show initiative because he does not want his tutor to do what his teacher normally does when his class performance is poor; that is, to invite his guardians to come to school.




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